They say they like
what I wear and
The lips on my lipstick
And the way my hair
wears my head but
It wears on me
The moment my words leave my lips and
I put my foot down and my hands on my hips
It’s too confusing.
And it’s too hard
Be quiet
Be cute
Little black girl
Play
Your
Part
It wears on me
Like when I wear my super skinny jeans
And they say to me
they look so good on you
I say thanks, it’s because I’m running
Running every other day of the week
I’m running
Because it wears on me
On this day, Martin Luther King Jr. would have been 88 years old. I wrote this piece a few years back, but decided to re-post it, as its relevance still stands.
On this day (January 15th) in 1929, one of our country’s (and the world’s) greatest leaders was born. In 1963 at the March on Washington, he delivered his “I Have a Dream” speech, one of the most (if not, THE most) powerful, most eloquent speeches known to man. King went on to win the Nobel Peace Prize for his peaceful efforts against US racism in 1964.
Among his most notable achievements — the things we (hopefully) learn about in schooling and in other outlets — are the turmoil, the setbacks and the degradation King and his contemporaries faced in a nation where their influence, their ideas, their livelihoods and their color were viewed with pure hate. All in the name of equality.
And here we are today — we as black folk can vote, we can use whatever restroom we want, drink from whichever water fountain we want, we can now attend the universities that were built by the blood, sweat and tears of our own enslaved ancestors — the same universities we were institutionally excluded from for much of the 20th century…you get the point. Things aren’t perfect, but we as a people have come a long way — all because of the sacrifices of King and others before us.
And how do we pay them back? Oh, by editing their pictures into club flyers, of course.
You may be thinking — “Lighten up, its not that bad,” or perhaps, “It’s just a joke, its not that serious.” But when we make these flyers, when we share them and use them to promote events — it becomes a little more damaging than a paper and a laugh. “FREE AT LAST,” reads the top of the flyer posted above. But what I’d like to ask everyone reading this is — Who is really free?
During slavery, blacks were degraded to the utmost degree — slaves that were talented were mocked and made to feel less than; slaves that were disadvantaged in some way or couldn’t perform as well as others were humiliated by slave owners as well, often given names of powerful Greek gods and goddesses, as a sarcastic gesture to poke fun at their powerlessness. Slave women were raped on a daily basis, sexually exploited and denied any sexual freedom at the hands of this very nation. Black bodies were deemed worthless and were put on display in slave auctions and other “events,” stripping slaves of their clothes…and their dignities.
I ask you again, WHO is really free?
In this flyer here (and in many, many others), King is “adorned” with a crown, gold chains and gold rings. Are we celebrating an African-American hero? Or are we making a mockery of this civil rights pioneer for our own “gains,” just as the slave owners did back in the day? It would be just like the actions of the slave owners, but in this instance, our own gains (promoting said party while promoting degradation of our men and women) are also our own losses (promoting said party while promoting degradation of our men and women). Damn, at least the slave owners even had enough sense about them to better themselves in the process.
Excuse my language and excuse my disgust. But this is an all time low for us, ya’ll.
I like to party. I like to joke. But I love my dignity 10 fold more than the former. Can we put a crown and some gold rings on that?
Free at last? More like last to be free.
Slave burial grounds and cemeteries continue to be vandalized and disrespected on a regular basis in the South.
Ten years a slave
times 15 at least
a piece of history that never seems
to ever find its peace
severed under ground that’s leased
To the highest bidder
Can you tell that I am bitter because we’ve seen and done all of this before?
All that is left is the land over our ancestors’ heads
Like collateral for a loan we never even took out
Dejected and neglected
Like a bastard child
The world has the nerve to feel embarrassed about
A product of its own rape, pillage and evil
But here lies the sequel
Burial grounds hidden in small southern towns
Cemeteries on university grounds that
Can only be found underground
Hidden from civilization.
We go from decimation to dedication to desecration
back to decimation all over again
A murder of mind and memory each day we ignore and pretend with
Burial ground dedications and designations and celebrations
While glass shards and hate speech and skull bones and fire
Serve as party decorations…
Can you tell that I am tired?
Because my ancestors couldn’t live and
Now they can’t even die
On this day (January 15th) in 1929, one of our country’s greatest leaders was born. In 1963 at the March on Washington, he delivered his “I Have a Dream” speech, one of the most (if not, THE most) powerful, most eloquent speeches known to man. King went on to win the Nobel Peace Prize for his peaceful efforts against US racism in 1964.
Among his most notable achievements — the things we (hopefully) learn about in schooling and in other outlets — are the turmoil, the setbacks and the degradation King and his contemporaries faced in a nation where their influence, their ideas, their livelihoods and their color were viewed with pure hate. All in the name of equality.
And here we are today — we as black folk can vote, we can use whatever restroom we want, drink from whichever water fountain we want, we can now attend the universities that were built by the blood, sweet and tears of our own enslaved ancestors — the same universities we were institutionally excluded from for much of the 20th century…you get the point. Things aren’t perfect, but we as a people have come a long way — all because of the sacrifices of King and others before us.
And how do we pay them back? Oh, by editing their pictures into club flyers, of course.
You may be thinking — “Lighten up, its not that bad,” or perhaps, “It’s just a joke, its not that serious.” But when we make these flyers, when we share them and use them to promote events — it becomes a little more damaging than a paper and a laugh. “FREE AT LAST,” reads the top of the flyer posted above. But what I’d like to ask everyone reading this is — Who is really free?
During slavery, blacks were degraded to the utmost degree — slaves that were talented were mocked and made to feel less than; slaves that were disadvantaged in some way or couldn’t perform as well as others were humiliated by slave owners as well, often given names of powerful Greek gods and goddesses, as a sarcastic gesture to poke fun at their powerlessness. Slave women were raped on a daily basis, sexually exploited and denied any sexual freedom at the hands of this very nation. Black bodies were deemed worthless and were put on display in slave auctions and other “events,” stripping slaves of their clothes…and their dignities.
I ask you again, WHO is really free?
In this flyer here (and in many, many others), King is “adorned” with a crown, gold chains and gold rings. Are we celebrating an African-American hero? Or are we making a mockery of this civil rights pioneer for our own “gains,” just as the slave owners did back in the day? It would be just like the actions of the slave owners, but in this instance, our own gains (promoting said party while promoting degradation of our men and women) are also our own losses (promoting said party while promoting degradation of our men and women). Damn, at least the slave owners even had enough sense about them to better themselves in the process.
Excuse my language and excuse my disgust. But this is an all time low for us, ya’ll.
I like to party. I like to joke. But I love my dignity 10 fold more than the former. Can we put a crown and some gold rings on that?
Dr. Kiara Shanay Lee 